October 20–26, 2025, is Estate Planning Awareness Week - a national observance created to encourage Americans to think about what will happen to their loved ones and their assets after they die. For many people, the term estate planning brings to mind stacks of legal documents, a will, a trust, a healthcare directive, or powers of attorney. But estate planning isn’t just about creating documents. It’s about making sure the people you love are protected and supported when they need it most. It's ultimately about love, protection, and peace of mind. 

Yet despite that truth, most people are unprepared. A survey from 2024 showed that only 32% of Americans have a will, a 6% decline from the previous year. That means most families are at risk of court involvement, conflict, and unnecessary costs at the very moment they are grieving.

In this article, you’ll learn why estate planning is one of the most important steps you can take for everyone you love. You’ll discover what happens when families don’t plan, how to create a plan that works, and why now is the perfect time to put your plan in place.

What Most People Miss: Estate Planning Is About People, Not Paperwork

The most common misconception we hear is that drafting a set of documents and signing them is how to create an estate plan. This misconception exists because it’s the traditional way estate planning has been done, and most people don’t know how insufficient documents alone are until they’re left dealing with a big legal and financial mess after a loved one has died. But you can avoid leaving a mess for those you love if you create a well-designed plan that goes beyond the paperwork.

A well-designed, complete plan makes life easier for all the people you love. It ensures they have the clarity, authority, and support they’ll need when something happens to you.

Imagine your loved ones trying to manage your affairs without knowing where your accounts are, how your bills get paid, or who should make medical decisions for you if you can’t speak for yourself. Without clarity and support, they could face months of confusion, stress, and court involvement. But with a proper plan in place, they’ll know exactly what to do and whom to turn to so they can focus on what really matters: caring for each other.

A well-designed estate plan doesn’t just pass on your assets. It passes on your values, your guidance, and your love. You will record the stories you want remembered, the traditions you hope will continue, and the lessons you’ve learned that you want your loved ones to carry forward. These are the true treasures your loved ones will cherish most. When you see planning this way, it becomes clear that it’s not something you do for yourself. It’s something you do for them. 

As important as it is to understand what estate planning truly represents, it’s equally important to recognize the consequences of neglecting it.

What Happens When You Don’t Plan

Another misconception we hear is that people think they don’t have enough assets to warrant planning. This also isn’t true. Since estate planning is ultimately about people, you need a plan if you have anyone in your life whom you love.

No matter the size of someone’s estate, every lawyer who helps families after a death has seen it: the heartbreak that happens when planning was ignored, outdated, or incomplete. 

People who never created a plan, or have an incomplete or failed plan, create a situation where their loved ones face long delays, expense, and family strife. Assets are frozen. Bills go unpaid. Grieving children are left to guess at their parents’ wishes, and often disagree about what those wishes were. Even simple omissions can lead to lost property, family disputes, or thousands of dollars in unnecessary legal fees.

And then there’s another danger: the illusion of planning. Many people think they’ve completed their estate plan because they used an online form or had a lawyer prepare documents years ago. But if those documents don’t reflect current laws, assets, or relationships, they can fail completely when they’re needed most. And when plans fail, the result isn’t just financial, it’s emotional. Loved ones who were once close may end up with irretrievably broken relationships. Precious time and energy are spent untangling confusion instead of being spent together in comfort and healing.

That’s why Estate Planning Awareness Week exists - to remind us that estate planning isn’t a one-time task, but an ongoing act of care. The good news is that with the right guidance, your plan can protect your loved ones for life.

How to Create a Plan That Truly Works

Our Life & Legacy Planning® process results in a well-designed, well-thought-out plan that works when you and your loved ones need it. It’s not documents-focused, it’s people-focused. Life & Legacy Planning is a comprehensive process designed to protect both your loved ones’ future and their peace of mind.

When you work with us, your plan begins with a Life & Legacy Planning Session, a working meeting that helps you understand exactly what would happen to your family and each of your particular assets if something happened to you now. During your session, you’ll gain clarity about your current situation and make informed choices about what’s truly best for the people you love. We’ll review your goals, relationships, assets, and values, then create a plan that ensures everything and everyone you care about will be protected exactly the way you intend.

Importantly, a Life & Legacy Plan is a living system, not a static set of papers. It includes an up-to-date inventory of your assets, clear instructions for your loved ones, and a built-in process for regular reviews as your life, the law, and your assets change. It’s a relationship-based approach that ensures your plan stays current and that your loved ones always have us as someone to turn to for help when they need it most.

By combining proactive legal planning with ongoing support, we help you avoid the very pitfalls that leave most families struggling after a loved one’s death. The result is confidence, not just that your documents are complete, but that everyone you love will be guided by someone who knows you, your wishes, and your story.

When you understand how powerful real planning can be, the next step becomes clear: act before it’s too late.

Your Next Step Happens Now

This Estate Planning Awareness Week, take the step that too many people put off entirely, or put off until it’s too late.

If you already have a plan, let’s make sure it’s up to date and truly reflects your life today. If you don’t, now is the perfect time to begin.

As a Personal Family Lawyer® Firm, we can help you create a Life & Legacy Plan that organizes your finances, protects your loved ones, and ensures your plan works exactly as you intend. You’ll walk away knowing your loved ones will have a trusted advisor to turn to when you no longer can. Life & Legacy Planning gives you peace of mind now, and gives your loved ones peace of mind for the future.